Friday 10 June 2022

Is India Really The Most Dangerous and Most Unsafe Destination for A Women to Travel ?

While browsing through the Internet I read that India is dangerous place for women. There is more chance of getting harassed in India  than any other place.

I am on many forums and read mixed bag of reply. It seems to me that most biased replies are from those who have never been to India and giving their verdict on the basis of what they heard on internet or on news.

None of them has any data or have done any statistical analysis to show that India is Most dangerous. While some people said India is most dangerous place for women, while others said north India is most dangerous place.

As a traveler This got me going. I started to my research. First thing I found what there were two type of people in the crowd. People who visited India and experienced India by themselves and people who never visited India and are biased.

People who visited India had mixed views ranging from very positive to very negative. While People who did not visit India had most negative view.

Many people who visited India shared that many of their negative and bad experience could have been avoided if they had not became complacent and watched their back.

I firmly believe that our safety is in our own hand, it does not matter where we live, where we travel.

I am not saying that India does not have problems but India is certainly not as negative as it is portrayed to be.

Further on the basis of subjective opinion some tourist said they felt south to be safer , some said west to be safer.

Let's see the statics to really know once and for all what is the truth. How unsafe India is and how unsafe north India.

First let's deal with India is most unsafe country for a women, and there is high chance of women getting harassed and assaulted.

Countries with highest crime against women.

Source https://www.unodc.org

Source https://worldpopulationreview.com/country-rankings/rape-statistics-by-country

If we see the statics from that it is evident that India is not the most unsafe country for women. Statistically speaking there is more chance of women getting assaulted and harassed in many developed countries and western countries than in India.

Most unsafe destination within India.

Many tourist and many Indians think that Goa and other southern part is safer and north and central India are relatively unsafe. 

What is the reality ? 

Source  https://ncrb.gov.in

According to Government of India and statics.

On the basis of multi year average 

Most unsafe place for women in India are Chandigarh, Delhi, Haryana, Rajasthan.

South Indian destination are not as safe as portrayed or claimed to be.

Popular destination such as Goa and Kerala is not Safer than West Bengal or Uttar Pradesh.

So a a tourist one should not fall for Politics, rivalry and competition and should rely on data Instead.

I am Not here to promote India or places within India. 

I am here to give realistic and objective facts backed by data. I am just trying to be objective and trying to displace the unwanted biases and negativity.

I am not telling anyone to go or not to go India. Use your brain and use your discretion and decide it by yourself. 

Every country has its nuisances and tourist should be mindful of them before traveling there.

In the end I will again stress, irrespective of place you go and visit, remember your safety in your own hands. So be careful and watch your back and do not become complacent.

Thursday 9 June 2022

A Female's Guide to Travel India and other countries safely.

Countries In and around around India subcontinent are culturally and socially similarly. Indeed there are some regional variations and regional nuisances but over all they are very similar.

I came across many forum how to safely travel these countries safely. Since these countries are socially and culturally similar so is their safety and security.

So keeping somethings in your mind will make your travel safer.

Following are few suggestions if you will follow can make your trips safer. These suggestions are complied on the basis of my interaction with other fellow travelers and my personal experience of traveling.

There is an old saying "when in Rome do as the romans do". Same rules and suggestions apply to traveling and touring around the world.

Before you can start the tour you should consider these things:-
  • Research about the country and place you are going to visit.
  • Research what is considered appropriate and what is considered inappropriate.
  • Respect their values and cultures and try not to offend the people.
  • Prepare yourself to be stared. 
Once you have decide to take the trip consider these:-
  1. Have number of your embassy saved. Do not hesitate to call them when in trouble.
  2. Get a sim card at the airport as soon as you land in the country, you might will not get another chance to get a sim card outside.
  3. Have local police station phone number, police superintendent phone number saved and if possible local news paper, news network and journalist phone number. Do not hesitate to call them when in trouble.
  4. Get on twitter follow get acquainted to handles of Prime minister, president, tourism minister, district admiration, local police, superintendent of police. Once in country if you have any problem or if you have any grievances post here.
  5. Always keep a spare phone.
  6. Always inform and share details with your family and friends where are you going and with whom you are going.
  7. Arrange for random calls from family and friends at random time.
  8. Do research about your hotels, hostels, restaurants and tourist spots on various forums and websites like TripAdvisor.
  9. Wear Modest clothes.
  10. Research the locality before going, do not go to secluded place.
  11. Do not drink anything and eat anything given by a stranger.
  12. Eat at crowded place.
  13. Do not hitch hike and do not take lift from strangers.
  14. Avoid handshakes, hugs from strangers instead do namaste.
  15. If traveling in private vehicles Always take pictures of vehicle, its number and its drive ,and hare it with friend and family.
  16. As much as possible take public buses, metro, train and plane for your travels.
  17. Do not tour around the city at night.
  18. If followed and stalked immediately take pictures and videos of stalker(stalkers), and immediately contact organizations and officials mentioned in point no 3 and 4.
  19. If someone tries to try to touch you inappropriately or groap you and you are sure it is not a bump by mistake and in hurry then cry and shout as loud as you can also take picture and videos of culprit, if deemed necessary call authorities and organizations mentioned in point no 3.
  20. Do not drink, do not smoke, do not go to pub or bar these are frowned upon activities.
  21. Avoid offer or solicitation of massage or alcoholic drink by a stranger.
  22. Do not share room with strangers and do not spend nights with strangers.
  23. Get a wedding band or an engagement ring and if you get unwanted solicitation for relationship show them your engagement ring/band and then boldly tell you are already engaged avoid saying that you have a boy friend instead say you have fiancée.
  24. Ignore sellers, merchants, beggars and other nuisance do not talk to them, do not give money to them, simply keep on moving.
  25. Do not bargain or negotiate at shop and business establishment unless you absolutely want to buy or heir their services.
It is not that you cannot travel safely alone, but when possible try to travel in group with friends. It is more fun and more safer that way.

Your safety is in your hands. Many accidents and bad experiences can be avoided if you are careful and watch your back.

Tuesday 2 February 2021

A Female's Guide to Safer Travel. Especially To Culturally Different Country.

No two countries are same, but some countries can be radically different. Countries from same regions are usually similar. and countries from different region are usually different. To demonstrate what I mean. Most countries in Europe have similar culture and values. Say than in South East Asia or Middle East. 

Suppose you are a young couples from Europe and Go to Dubai. Even if you are a husband and wife, showing closeness and affection in Public Places can lead to trouble. Even hand holding of your Partner could land you in Jail. Similarly, you can invite trouble by sharing room with your boy friend.

Knowing basics of a country can save you from getting into trouble. Only way to Avoid unwanted trouble is knowing the basic customs. So I came up with some basic recommendations which you might consider following irrespective of place.

What I write is not just applicable to girls but also to boys. I tried to be come up with universal recommendations. If you traveling, knowing these and following them can make a difference in your Journey.

Before you start your journey, make sure to.

  • Get a Mobile Phone with International Roaming. 
  • Get a Local Mobile Number from Airport even if it seems expensive, Do not wait to get it outside. Many times you just might not be able to get it outside.
  • Have Local Police Contact Details (Social Media and Phone). 
  • Have Your Embassy's Contact Details (Social Media and Phone).
  • Have contact details of prominent National News Media and also  Local News Media of that Country.  (Social Media and Phone).
  • Familiarize yourself with Basic Customs of the Country, do some research before going there.
Once in Foreign Country, Remember that Foreign Laws Apply, So.

  • If scammed, cheated, harassed or threatened. Immediately Approach or Contact Local Law Enforcement Authorities and News Media. 
  • Beware of thieves and scammers.
  • Avoid conflicts and arguments with others.
  • Avoid swearing.
  • Avoid being critical.
  • Do not do what is not legal, even if it is not well enforced.
  • Do proper research before going to a place or an area.
  • Do not go to secluded and isolated places with strangers or alone.
  • Do not accept food or drink from strangers.
  • Do not go to bar or club with strangers or alone.
  • Do not drink Alcohol with Strangers.
  • Do not wear provocative clothes or skin revealing clothes.
  • When in doubt. Wear formal clothes or traditional clothes
  • Always share your current location with your friends and relatives.
  • Always share details regarding mode of transport with your friends and relatives.
For Islamic and Muslim Countries. Apart from what has already been mentioned above.
  1. Do not share room with men, even if they are your boy friend.
  2. Do not wear short, sleeveless clothes. Get clothes that completely covers your body.
  3. Do not Drink Alcohol without License.
Your safety and security is in your hand, so be be wise, choose wisely and act wisely. Taking something lightly and for granted in best case scenario can cause just some problems but in worst case can leave you with life long regret. 

I wish everyone A Safe and A Memorable Journey.

Let's Explore India Together In 2022.

 Hello,

An early 30s Polish Girl who Loves to Travel. So Far I have traveled to Chez Republic, France, Germany, Ukraine, Lithuania, Hungry, Pakistan and India.

Right now I am focusing on sub continent (India ,Nepal, Pakistan, Bangladesh, Sri Lanka) and I shall visit New Zealand some day, once I am done with Sub Continent Properly.

I am Planning yet another trip to India as my last trip was not completed due to Corona. I am writing this blog to find Like Minded People to Travel with. It is always more fun and safer to travel with Like Minded People.

It would be prudent to Clarify that I am only Looking For A Girl or Girls in A Group or Couples traveling together. Not looking for relationship, dating, romance or hook ups with anyone, man or woman. Irrespective of the place or relationship status I am strictly not looking for anyone.

Now that Disclaimer is out of the way. Let's talk more about my plans. Traveling to India was in my bucket list for as long as I can remember. So I finally planned but fate had other plans for me. I went to India and behind me came Corona. My plan was cut short and I returned back, with a hope that I will soon go back once there is a solution to Corona.

It is 2022 and many people around the world are already vaccinated against corona. Situation has improved much and international travels have more or less resumed. 

India stopped mandatory mask mandate and opened itself up for tourism and resumed giving tourist visas a while back. 

Situation has Improved and traveling is safe. So I decided to plan another trip to India. 

I am planning a budget trip for two or three weeks. Last time by budget was around 700 Euros per person for two weeks Excluding Flights, visa costs and insurance. 

Since there is a hyper inflation due to political issues and climatic conditions things are a little more expensive right now. Considering everything and factoring in inflation 70 Euros per head per day would be enough for a solo traveler. A 21 day trip would cost around 1500 Euro per head.

You might wonder, how I calculated the Price. Here is the list.

Food-
    a. 5 Euros Veg
    b. 10 Euros Non Veg
Lodging- 
    a. Hotels - 15 Euros Per Day . 
    b. Hostel - 07 Euros Per Day . 
Transportation -
    a. Train - Approximately 7 Euros Non Ac 1000 Km
    b. Buses - Approximately 5 Euros Non Ac 500 Km
    c. Cabs -  Approximately 3 Euros 5 Km
    d. Metro - Approximately 1 Euros 50 Km
Monument Tickets -
    5 Euros - 15 Euros
Guide Fees -
    10 Euros

Preliminary Destinations. Open To Suggestions. Can be finalized with Consensus. 

  1. Agra
  2. Amritsar
  3. Bodh Gaya
  4. Delhi
  5. Guwahati
  6. Jaipur
  7. Jaisalmer
  8. Jodhpur
  9. Kolkata
  10. Mathura
  11. Mayapur
  12. Nalanda
  13. Patna
  14. Rajgir
  15. Udaipur
  16. Varanasi
  17. Vrindavan
  18. Vaishali
Additional Destinations worth considering:-

  1. Badrinath
  2. Darjeeling
  3. Dharamshala
  4. Gangotri Glacier
  5. Kasol
  6. Kedarnath
  7. Rishikesh 
  8. Shilong
  9. Valley of Flower
  10. Yamunotri Glacier
Ready for a cultural shock ? Ready for something different?

Most of the Indian trip is focused on Golden triangle or big cities, but this will bit a bit different, which tries to balance everything.

Tour shall start from Delhi. We can meet in India or We can also fly together from Poland, Warsaw to India. 

I shall stay in India for around 3 Weeks and must go back because of Job. Anyone wants to stay there for longer can stay for longer.

Due to extreme heat and humidity from April to September. I think October to march are the Ideal months to travel India. My plan for this year is in between October to December. Arrival date is yet to be fixed we can discuss about it.

To head start I already have shortlisted places to visit. Itinerary is kept flexible and we can discuss and plan accordingly. Date and Itinerary are preliminary and are flexible until finalized.

People can split the cost equally among themselves for mutually agreed activities. For personal and different individual activities everyone pays for themselves.

Searching for flexible travel partners who are looking for an adventure, fun and wishes to relax.

If you have got any question feel free to ask.

Is India Really The Most Dangerous and Most Unsafe Destination for A Women to Travel ?

While browsing through the Internet I read that India is dangerous place for women. There is more chance of getting harassed in India  than ...